How To Be Ms. Perfect For Your Mr. Right
Do a search for "women's empowerment books"
...and you'll find a slew of titles on how to find Mr. Right or "call in the one." It's a strange phenomenon that women are saddled with in this patriarchal culture: the idea that we're only complete if we have a man by our side.
While the notion that women need a man is outdated, there is a deeper truth beneath the surface: all humans are hardwired for partnership. The greatest levels of personal healing and transformation often occur within the context of intimate relationships. While we don’t need a man to "complete" us, we as women thrive when we experience deep love and connection in the right relationship at the right time.
For modern women, there are often periods of aloneness, voluntary singleness, or times when we find ourselves between relationships. Even those of us who swear off intimacy altogether eventually wade back into the dating pool. Why? Because the desire for connection is written into our DNA.
And, the desire for intimacy is a core element of who we are as women.
I understand that might be an unpopular notion in today’s culture, where individualism and self-sufficiency are emphasized. Women, in particular, are expected to embody a DIY spirit—to be everything for ourselves and everyone around us, all the time.
But, that pressure goes against our feminine nature.
We need partnership. Relationship. Intimacy. Not because society says so, but because our hearts and souls crave it. When we're ready, and when the time is right, a healthy relationship with the right masculine partner can become a cornerstone of our personal fulfillment and joy.
As women who embrace feminine energy, having a masculine counterpart supports our ability to flourish in our feminine.
So, how do we truly find Mr. Right? Or, maybe its better thought of as: Mr. Perfectly Masculine For Us?
The answer lies not in changing ourselves to fit someone else’s mold, but in embracing our femininity and leaning into our strengths as Ms. Perfectly Feminine.
Embracing Your Feminine Power
Before you roll your eyes and think I’m suggesting that you should do what the patriarchy tells us—smile, look pretty, and be subservient—let me assure you, that is not what I’m advocating.
Instead, stepping into your power as a feminine woman means embracing your unique gifts and signaling to the world that you want to be cherished for who you are. When we honor our feminine energy, we invite the right masculine partner to step forward and meet us at our level.
Trust me, even the strongest, fiercest women with the most badass feminine energy desire to be cherished by the masculine. And there’s nothing weak or outdated about that.
What It Means To Be Cherished By The Masculine
The masculine cherishes the feminine when he never leaves her alone in her pain without finding a solution. Swoon.
This is one of the great gifts of the masculine to the feminine: providing stability, protection, and care in a way that allows the feminine to relax into her natural flow. When we find the right masculine partner who cherishes us without fail, it creates a stable foundation for us to thrive in our femininity.
This is about balance. It’s not about one partner being better than the other or one polarity being superior. It’s about the divine dance between masculine and feminine energies, a relationship that uplifts both partners to their highest potential.
Finding Mr. Perfectly Masculine For You
When you’re ready to find a partner who complements and cherishes you, start by looking inward. Are you embracing your own feminine power? Are you clear about the kind of energy you want to attract? Cultivating your feminine energy—your creativity, intuition, and emotional depth—creates a magnetic force that draws the right masculine energy toward you.
In order to attract the right masculine partner for us, we actually need to embody our femininity more strongly. Unfortunately, in our tough patriarchal culture, we are often taught to "don the mask of the masculine" in order to navigate daily life. This causes women to armor up ... or rather, "man up" to get through their day. When we display masculine qualities, though, we give the impression that our primary polarity is the masculine. And, unfortunately, that attracts the wrong kind of partner for us.
If the feminine is our primary polarity, then what we need is a strong counterpart; a masculine partner who embodies all the best qualities of that masculinity, like strength, leadership, guidance, support, providership, and protection.
When we embody the powerful qualities of the feminine; when we embrace our emotional depth, honor our intuition, express pleasure, are open to receive, and foster creativity in ourselves and others, then we allow ourselves to attract a masculine partner who deeply cherishes our femininity.
Attracting The (Right) One
They say good men are hard to find. But, I would rephrase it and say the right man is hard to attract ... especially if we are too locked in our own masculinity in our day-to-day life. Good men are out there, ones who deeply desire to find their beloved feminine and cherish their feelings and intuition every day. But, they are looking for the feminine. If all you portray to the world is your masculine armor, then they are going to miss seeing you ... miss seeing your innate feminine power, and the receptivity you have for the right masculine partner.
If you want to attract Mr. Right, then you need to BE in your wild femininity. You need to show THAT to the world. You need to be your own extraordinary version of Ms. Perfectly Feminine.
Remember, this journey isn’t about "fixing" yourself to be more attractive to someone else. It’s about celebrating who you are and honoring your natural strengths as a feminine being. When you do, the right partner—one who sees, honors, and cherishes you—will step forward.
And trust me, when that happens, it’s a love worth waiting for.
Ready to embody your feminine gifts? Start here ...
(Note: This article is written for those who identify as women on the feminine polarity. It is not meant to negate other genders or identities, but to support this particular population with their unique experiences and struggles.)
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